Mr. Coulda

The first victim to pull apart is Mr. Coulda Mr. Shoulda, and Mr. Woulda. Lets start with Mr. C. Any person who claims to have "been in love" knows him. Key word: Been. Unfortunately to be in love requires two parties. True Love consists of both sides giving equally to provide for their significant other. Now unfortunately for all of us who know Mr.C something went wrong. Lets find out why.

MR. Coulda:

The "could have" part of the relationship is what I like to call DENIAL. I've seen the female population (and some male) fall into the trap of long shot thinking. Instead of taking a relationship one step at a time the very first thought of a prospect is filled with day dreamed pictures of wedding cakes and love at first sight stories. When that relationship actually goes somewhere your stuck in what we humans like to call LIFE. The funny thing that is completely unpredictable and no matter how many romantic and life changing scenarios you create in your head, it just never seems to turn out that way. So when Mr. C was being too selfish to let you listen to your favorite song. Or would rather let his body slowly expand on the couch while you slaved over his mothers dishes. You refused to see those red flags. I'm not being harsh when i say that YES, that's a RED flag. You let yourself see past it because you like to think that he COULD change, or he COULD still love you. or you COULD get used to his bad habits. When you realize that Mr. Coulda is actually Mr. NEVER going to happen. Run and run fast. I'm predicting that if a relationship with Mr. C has ended it's because you broke it off because of his self centered or unchanging ways. OR it didn't work because of a foolish mistake of long shot thinking and Mr.C's disappointing actions. Any girl with good intentions and love to give should look for better than Mr. C. One day he COULD change. Patience is a virtue. But I believe in waiting for things that will ACTUALLY happen.